Is he cheating on me? Letters to Page Larkin
My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years. We get along in every room – if you catch my drift- except the kitchen.
He is very Vegan and picky, picky, picky about his food. He says I have an eating disorder- and will eat anything I order. (Ha ha)
The biggest problem is distance. He lives in another town. We only see each other on weekends. I think he might have a girl on the side, during the week.
I have been tempted to drive all the way over to his house on weeknights to check up on him.
What do you think?
Tiffany in a Tiff
Dear Tiffany in a Tiff,
It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship with a couple of wrinkles.
The good thing- food quirks are really no big deal- I am sure you’re aware that by now. Deal with it.
Your concern regarding another girlfriend is significant. Driving over to his home on a weeknight and surprising him is certainly not the best idea. It makes you look like a whackadoodle and could be a waste of time. And gas.
Here’s a thought: why not ask him if he see anybody else? Ta Da!
Let me know how that works for you.
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