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Wonderful insights and tips to the Suddenly Single- Waking Up Divorced
We walk out of the courtroom glazed, delighted, defeated, feeling numb or ecstatic and newly appointed: divorced.
Some of us throw a party – replete with champagne and pizza – or darts and beer. Others take to their beds, and watch a full season of Occupied, Broadchurch, or Happy Valley on Netflix, barely paying attention.
Some are already enmeshed in a new relationship and seek sex, refuge and understanding.
Whatever your state (grace, confusion, ire, relief) take the proper amount of processing time.
When you are ready, gently remove and discard the shroud around your heart. It may take awhile. Or not.
Next, shred the mountains of documents and go outside.
Go Outside: Watch the sunrise, take a walk, enjoy/join humanity in your new identity as a Single Person : Suddenly Single…
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