Thinking about quitting the Dating Game?
Are you tired, run-down, listless? Do you poop out at parties? Are you unpopular?
The answer to all your dating problems: Is try, try again.
Who hasn’t? Okay, so maybe you haven’t… it’s not a bad thing to try various and sundry dating sites.
Just like the song: You’ve got to Shop Around
If first you strike out: update, enhance, improve, re-think your online profile.
How do you come across? Do the research – see what other ’50 and Suddenly Singles’ are writing. Give it a few months – learn the ropes. Note: it’s really important to be pro-active. Reach out and communicate with others. Send out quick, short, friendly “intro emails,” every day. Yes, every day. It’s a numbers game.
If after all that – you still come up dry and it feels like a dead end: quit that site (Be sure to remove all photos, quips, quotes, essays and every trace then, cancel your membership.)
Your next assignment: Start Fresh: try new site
Start Fresh. First, post new pictures, take some time to answer the questions – remember, don’t panic about writing a tome, or a clever witty, attention getting best-seller – being succinct is fine. Test the waters and be yourself.
It’s a well-known fact that men are more apt to “shop” photos and read profiles later (maybe) and women are 10 times more apt to read a man’s profile.
Some studies say that women are “more picky.” Perhaps, we are…nevertheless, you’ll never be in the game unless you sign up and get active.