Boys, we need to talk – top 5 things women want to hear
men say 1000 fewer words than women.
What are the 1000 words that men don’t say?
Imagine if every man in America started saying more of “The Magic Words”- what a wonderful world it would be…
A random poll with two dozen women – asking them what were the ‘Top Five Things’ they would like to hear from their boyfriends, dates, lovers, inamorata, beau. The results were startling!
Well, not really.
After a very lengthy discussion – using far more than 1000 words – the conclusion:
The Top 5 Things Single Women Would Love to Hear Every Day
- You look fabulous.
- How did someone so intelligent, beautiful, and svelte like you ever stay single this long?
- Everything you say is fascinating.
- You have to be the most amazing, brilliant, sexiest, woman on the planet.
The BIG one would be :
- Good morning, beautiful. Here’s your coffee, just the way you like it. I’ll pick up the groceries and do your laundry. Let me wash your car and fill it with gas, okay? I’d be happy to sort the recycling and take the garbage out, if that’s okay with you. Shall I make dinner reservations?
Another Prescription for Joy: using a mere fraction of those 1000 words would be:
“I have a bottle of champagne chilled and we can watch your favorite movie while I massage your feet. Which chick flick do you want to watch?”
(Envision champagne corks popping, confetti, a balloon drop…)
Oscar Wilde – using many words- speaks of Talking:
“I love talking about nothing. It is the only thing I know anything about.”
“I like to do all the talking myself. It saves time, and prevents arguments.”