Are you flirting with me? Top three signs

Top Three Most Obvious Signs of Flirting:

Men (50+) who find themselves ‘suddenly single’ and back in the dating arena- admit to being very confused.

They say they are perplexed by single women and the dating scene – again – in 2013.  They ask if there are new rules.  Men want to know how you tell if a woman is actively flirting or just plain friendly?

Are there specific clues or behaviors that a woman is being playful and coy or acutely not interested? Yes! If a smile, winks, blinks, nods, and signs bewilder you- here are three obvious signs of flirting

Remember: Treat all positive interactions (smiles, nods, waves) as a bona fide flirt.

Sign #1: What’s in a Name? Flirting females frequently use your name in conversation. FYI: This is a very subtle attention getting device. Everyone likes to hear his or her name, right? Listen, carefully and respond in kind.

Sign #2: How do you feel about that? If a woman is interested in you – she might brush up against you: it could be a pat, a hug or a tap. Look for seemingly innocent light touches: on your shoulder, arm, or knee. There is method to the madness.

Sign #3:  Eye Contact? Yes, the eyes have it. A woman who is interested in you will look you in the eye – often – and for more than a split second. Your job? Look back, and smile. Yes, and so it begins…

Incorporate the LALA’s Flirting Method in your daily activities: Look At, Look Again, and Smile. Remember: love looks with the eyes and the mind.

What a Piece of Work is a Man
The opposite of fun and flirting is a ‘Stop’ sign – a dead end. When a man does not respond to our being cute, coy or playful – we move on. Life is short – carpe diem.
Ladies, here are five obvious signs he is going, going, gone.
Five Signs of Dead End Dates:
1.    He asks you to split the check.
2.    He cancels more than one date.
3.    He takes and makes phone calls during the date; acts distracted and bored.
4.    He flirts with the hostess, the waitress, the bus boy – everyone but, you.
5.    He admits to liking Honey Boo Boo.
Those flashing red flags are blatant indicators: something is wrong and it isn’t you. Time for you to move over, move on and  find a new friend.

You flirting with me? Men are confused

Men readily admit to being confused by women and their flirting techniques.

Are you confused by signs, signals, winks and blinks?

Remember this:  Treat all positive interactions (smiles, nods, waves) as a bona fide flirt.

Top Three Most Obvious Signs of Flirting:

Sign #1: What’s in a Name? They uses your name, often, in conversation. This is a very subtle attention getting device. Everyone likes to hear his or her name, right? Listen, carefully.

Sign #2: Touched by an Angel? Nonchalantly, they tend to brush up against you: could be a pat, a hug or a tap. Look for seemingly innocent light touches: on your shoulder, arm or knee. There is method in the madness.

Sign #3:  Eye Contact? Yes, the eyes have it. They will look you in the eye – often and for more than a split second.

Incorporate the LALA’s Flirting Method in your daily activities: Look At, Look Again, and Smile.

Remember: love looks with the eyes and the mind.

What a Piece of Work is a Man

The opposite of fun and flirting is a  ‘Stop’ sign and a dead end. Women wonder, ponder and dwell about the success of a date. It’s what we do.

Here are four obvious signs he is going, going, gone. Remember: nothing can come of nothing.

Four Signs of Dead End Dates:

1. He asks you to split the check.
2. He cancels more than one date.
3. He takes and makes phone calls during the date; acts distracted and bored.
4. He flirts with the hostess, the waitress, the bus boy – everyone but, you.

Something is wrong in the state of affairs if any or all of those events happen on a date. If that is the case, move on. Revel in the “early Spring” sunshine. Love is in the air and San Francisco is a wonderful, exciting, place for romance.

Happy Marcht: Start your lessons: Take tennis lessons, beginner dance lessons, see all the local events happening today at Meetup.com. Now is the time to meet new people and have more fun.

Three Local Hot Spots for Dancing

• Allegro Ballroom 
• The Seahorse in Sausalito
• Ashkenaz

“Men do not quit playing because they grow old; they grow old because they quit playing.  Oliver Wendell Holmes ‘

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